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Mike has witnessed the devastating impact of addiction in his life, work, and community. He began his career as a Navy helicopter pilot and went on to serve as a Corrections Officer, DC Police Officer, and FBI Agent. In 2010, while teaching at the FBI Academy, he developed a course to help police executives better understand alcoholism, prescription drug abuse, PTSD, suicide, and domestic violence. After retiring from the FBI in 2019, he earned a Master’s in Addiction Counseling and now works full-time as a Behavioral Health Therapist at a major nonprofit hospital. Together with his wife, Lillie, he draws on personal and professional experience to have honest and compassionate conversations about addiction, recovery, and mental health, focusing on breaking stigma, offering support, and sharing resources that remind people they are not alone and that recovery is possible. To connect with Mike and Lillie, subscribe to their weekly newsletter, or simply learn more about them, visit vanmeterwellnessolutions.com.
Episodes

Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
Episode 76 - Parents of Addicted Loved Ones
Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
We spend a lot of time talking about the addict and the destruction caused by addiction. But what about the family? In this episode I speak with Kim Humphrey, Executive Director of Parents of Addicted Loved Ones (PAL). Join me in this fascinating discussion and learn how you can take care of yourself during this difficult time.
Website: https://palgroup.org
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com
Music-John Williams and the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra. The Planets III, Mercury, The Winged Messenger

Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Episode 75 - Let‘s Talk About Fear
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Fear is a double-edged sword. It is often what drives people towards recovery and often it is also what keeps some people in recovery. However, fear can also prevent us from living a full and meaningful live. In today's episode, we discuss the ups and downs of fear and a simple way of managing it.
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com
Music-John Williams and the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra. The Planets III, Mercury, The Winged Messenger

Monday Aug 30, 2021
Episode 74 - Misperceptions That Get In The Way Of Pursuing Recovery
Monday Aug 30, 2021
Monday Aug 30, 2021
Many people have misperceptions about recovery that get in the way of pursuing a life of freedom and joy. Join me as I discuss this issue with Don Thiry, a fellow student at the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation Graduate School. Don describes the many facets of recovery and how you can find a path that works for you.
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com
Music-John Williams and the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra. The Planets III, Mercury, The Winged Messenger

Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
Andrew Pierce has a new book called "Resolving Spiritual Skepticism In Recovery" and discusses his views on the podcast. Spirituality is an issue that nearly everyone will need to address in recovery, and this is a fascinating interview that you will not want to miss.
Website: www.andrewgpierce.com
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com
Music-John Williams and the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra. The Planets III, Mercury, The Winged Messenger

Saturday Aug 07, 2021
Episode 72 - ”Your Body Keeps The Score”
Saturday Aug 07, 2021
Saturday Aug 07, 2021
In this episode I talk with A.K. Dozanti, founder and creator of Life Saver Wellness. A.K. discusses "beating the burnout" and shares her experience as a former Deputy Sheriff and Criminal Court Victim Advocate who ultimately became a Yoga instructor, Life Coach and educator who combined all of her skills to build Life Saver Wellness.
Website: lifesaverwellness.com
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com
Music-John Williams and the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra, The Planets III, Mercury, The Winged Messenger

Saturday Jul 31, 2021
Episode 71 - Getting Right Sized in Recovery
Saturday Jul 31, 2021
Saturday Jul 31, 2021
In this episode I discuss "Getting Right Sized in Recovery" with retired firefighter Ric Jorge of Palm Beach County Fire/Rescue. Ric discusses his amazing story of experience, strength, and hope and gives us some great insight into what successful recovery looks like, and which pitfalls to avoid.
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com
Music-John Williams and the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra, The Planets III, Mercury, The Winged Messenger

Friday Jul 30, 2021
Episode 70 - Using Imagery in Recovery
Friday Jul 30, 2021
Friday Jul 30, 2021
In this episode I discuss the use of imagery in recovery. Coming from a military and police background, I always found the use of symbols during milestones and celebrations helpful. Learn how I used this concept as a tool to help me, and maybe you will find it will help you too.
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Friday Jul 23, 2021
Episode 69 - Avoiding HALT: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired
Friday Jul 23, 2021
Friday Jul 23, 2021
In this episode I discuss one of the many tools you can use to help your recovery. The acronym HALT has long been used to remind ourselves of things to avoid in order to increase the chances of preventing relapse.
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Saturday Jul 03, 2021
Episode 68 - KL Wells and VoicesInCourage
Saturday Jul 03, 2021
Saturday Jul 03, 2021
In this episode I interview KL Wells of VoicesInCourage. KL's mission for helping families and parents of addicted loved ones inspired her to launch VoicesInCourage, a community that provides instrumental resources for individuals who need to heal, connect and grow during the most challenging times.
Website: https://voicesincourage.com
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Sunday Jun 27, 2021
Episode 67 - The Yeah Buts...
Sunday Jun 27, 2021
Sunday Jun 27, 2021
People come to recovery looking for solutions to their problems. After they arrive, they often hear "pearls of wisdom" and solutions that are tried and true for millions of people. Often, after being presented the solution, clients will say "Yeah, but...and then go on to explain how their plan is better. In this episode we discuss how your plan got you into treatment in the first place, and offer some suggestions on how listening, and willingness are the true solutions to recovery.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Saturday Jun 19, 2021
Episode 66 - Dr. Sachi Ananda of FHE Health discusses Recovery and First Responders
Saturday Jun 19, 2021
Saturday Jun 19, 2021
As Director of "Shatterproof," Dr. Sachi Ananda, Ph.D., LMHC, MCAP, is responsible for providing clinical direction to FHE Health's specialized treatment program for first responders. In this interview we discuss some of the innovative work FHE Health is doing such as neurorehabilitation and EMDR and how these modalities help in the recovery process.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Sunday Jun 06, 2021
Episode 65 - Can You Be Too Smart For Recovery?
Sunday Jun 06, 2021
Sunday Jun 06, 2021
People who are well educated and outwardly successful sometimes struggle with recovery because of their success. In this episode I discuss why this is a problem, and I offer a solution for those that are willing to put their egos aside.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Tuesday Jun 01, 2021
Episode 64 - Willingness is the Key
Tuesday Jun 01, 2021
Tuesday Jun 01, 2021
Many people just do not have the willingness to listen to others and learn how they achieved sobriety. Ego, our perceived intellect, and stubbornness get in the way. In this episode we discuss this topic, as well as the importance of getting active and committed to meetings.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Thursday May 20, 2021
Episode 63 - Interview with Julie Yocca of Movement Forward, Inc.
Thursday May 20, 2021
Thursday May 20, 2021
In this episode I discuss how we can build a bridge between Law Enforcement and our Communities to help heal wounds with Julie Yocca of Movement Forward, Inc. Recovery from addiction is in everyone's best interest, and we talk about how we can work to address this common goal by recognizing the humanity in one another, and learn where we can work together to heal and move forward. We can recover from addiction as individuals, but we can recover as communities as well. Go to: movementforward.org
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Thursday May 13, 2021
Episode 62 - Capt. Renee’ Peterson: Broward County Sheriff’s Office
Thursday May 13, 2021
Thursday May 13, 2021
In this episode I speak with Capt. Renee' Peterson of the Broward County Sheriff's Office. I had the pleasure of meeting Capt. Peterson while in Florida visiting FHE. Capt. Peterson oversees the Neighborhood Support Team where she works with community stakeholders, unifying efforts to meet their needs. Capt. Peterson is also working to improve wellness programs for officers to help them become the best public servants they can be. We also discuss the issue of addiction and mental health both in Law Enforcement and the community and the steps that can be taken to improve how these issues are addressed.
Email: Renee_Peterson@sheriff.org
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Thursday May 06, 2021
Episode 61 - Progress Rather Than Perfection
Thursday May 06, 2021
Thursday May 06, 2021
In this episode I discuss questions I received from people who are in treatment. There is a lot of work people must do early in recovery, but people need to be patient as well. Progress rather than perfection is this week's concept.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Saturday May 01, 2021
Episode 60 - Family Support for the Addict/Alcoholic
Saturday May 01, 2021
Saturday May 01, 2021
My guest describes what she went through during her husband's active addiction, how she came to accept that addiction is a disease, and what she did to better care for herself and her family.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Thursday Apr 22, 2021
Episode 59 - Interview with Dustin Hawkins, Indian River County, Florida Fire/Rescue
Thursday Apr 22, 2021
Thursday Apr 22, 2021
Suicide is a very difficult topic, but today's episode addresses the issue head on. This powerful interview gives you the thought process and solution from someone who has been there. Dustin Hawkins is a Chaplain and Fireman with the Indian River County, Florida Fire and Rescue. He gives us a front row seat to this issue, and shares with us his powerful story.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Episode 58 - People, Places, Things, and Situations
Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Early sobriety can be negatively affected by people, places, things, and situations. A listener asked what was meant by this because they hear this phrase quite a bit at recovery meetings. In this episode I explain what this phrase means and give practical ideas to help one stay sober.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Wednesday Apr 14, 2021
Wednesday Apr 14, 2021
Brendan McDonough is the lone survivor of the Yarnell Hill fire tragedy in 2013. Today he is a public speaker and works with numerous non-profits for veterans, police officers, firefighters, and emergency medical services. Brendan joined the “Granite Mountain Hotshots” in Prescott, AZ after being a hopeless heroin addict when Superintendent Eric Marsh decided to take a chance on him. Ultimately, Brendan became the lone survivor of a freak fire on June 30, 2013 in Yarnell, AZ that killed 19 of his fellow firemen.
The story of Brendan and these brave firefighters was made into the feature film “Only The Brave” which was released by Sony Pictures in 2017 and features a cast that includes Josh Brolin, Miles Teller, Jeff Bridges, and Jennifer Connelly. Brendan is currently the CEO of Holdfast Recovery located in Prescott, AZ. Find out more at: holdfastrecovery.com

Friday Apr 09, 2021
Episode 56 - What Do You Do When A Friend Suggests Not Taking Medication?
Friday Apr 09, 2021
Friday Apr 09, 2021
Some people feel that taking medication is cheating in a recovery program. In this episode I answer this question from a listener.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com

Tuesday Apr 06, 2021
Episode 55 - Getting to the Heart of Getting Sober
Tuesday Apr 06, 2021
Tuesday Apr 06, 2021
The steps to sobriety differ for each person. In this episode, I answer several questions from a listener and walk through what worked for me: What was your turning point to get sober? What was your thought process prior to a relapse? What motivates you to keep trying and to not pick up the first drink?

Tuesday Mar 30, 2021
Episode 54 - The Spiritual Side of Wellness: Chaplain Dan Vickey, Ohio ASSIST
Tuesday Mar 30, 2021
Tuesday Mar 30, 2021
We must take care of all aspects of our life when it comes to wellness. This includes our spiritual development. This is certainly true for people in recovery, but is true for everyone no matter what their profession. Chaplain Dan Vickey discusses the importance of spirituality in a wellness program with me, and the importance of programs like the Post Critical Incident Seminars.

Thursday Mar 25, 2021
Thursday Mar 25, 2021
The issue of suicide is receiving a lot of attention lately. This has been a tough year for everyone, but especially for our First Responders. This fascinating conversation with EMS Captain and Chaplain Jeremy Hurd helps us put this issue into perspective, and lets us know there is help for those who are suffering.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Tuesday Mar 23, 2021
Tuesday Mar 23, 2021
Dave Sinclair is an author and Transformational Journey Support Coach. He recently authored a book titled “Numb? Break Old Habits, Escape The Rat Race. Live Your Ideal Life.” This was a fascinating interview, and I know you will not only learn a great deal about life in recovery, but have fun as well! To find out more, go to davesinclair.ca.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Thursday Mar 18, 2021
Episode 51 - Interview with Todd Crandell, Founder of Racing for Recovery
Thursday Mar 18, 2021
Thursday Mar 18, 2021
In this episode we explore the many options people have in their recovery journey. Todd Crandell has been an inspiration through his own journey in recovery, and today he shares his vision and passion in how Racing for Recovery emphasizes diet, exercise, and wellness to help people not only get well, but stay well. To find out more, go to racingforrecovery.org.

Tuesday Mar 16, 2021
Episode 50 - Do Drug Courts Work? Interview with Judge Nelson W. Rupp, Jr.
Tuesday Mar 16, 2021
Tuesday Mar 16, 2021
Often we do not want to get well until we have felt enough pain. But do Drug Courts work? Listen to this fascinating interview with Judge Nelson W. Rupp, Jr. to find out how effective courts are and the miracles that are happening in people's lives.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Thursday Mar 11, 2021
Episode 49 - Interview with Helen Hill, LISWS
Thursday Mar 11, 2021
Thursday Mar 11, 2021
Helen Hill discusses the services of the Ohio Assist Program, specifically Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Many attendees swear by this treatment, but how and why does it work?
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Thursday Mar 04, 2021
Episode 48 - FBI National Academy Instructor Suzanna Hasnay Discusses Resiliency
Thursday Mar 04, 2021
Thursday Mar 04, 2021
Resiliency is critical to wellness and dealing with all that life throws at us. In this episode I interview Suzanna Hasnay who taught with me at the FBI National Academy. Suzanna discusses how and why resiliency is important for our life, career, and recovery.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Tuesday Mar 02, 2021
Episode 47 - Interview with All Points North Lodge CEO Noah Nordheimer
Tuesday Mar 02, 2021
Tuesday Mar 02, 2021
In this episode I speak with Noah Nordheimer, CEO of APN Lodge located in the heart of the Rocky Mountains near Vail, Colorado. APN is working to tailor programs for their clients and explore revolutionary recovery modalities such as Deep TMS and Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy. APN is working hard to develop programs that address issues for various groups and performs extensive follow-up with their clients. Listen in to find out how they are doing it. Find out more at apnlodge.com.
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Thursday Feb 25, 2021
Episode 46 - Katrina Discusses Relapse
Thursday Feb 25, 2021
Thursday Feb 25, 2021
We do not have to relapse, but if we do, we can learn many lessons. Katrina discusses what she did.
This episode is sponsored by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Monday Feb 22, 2021
Episode 45 - Interview with Deborah Wolf
Monday Feb 22, 2021
Monday Feb 22, 2021
Deborah Wolf was one of the first women in the Metropolitan Police Department, Washington, DC. She discusses her life, career, and recovery from alcoholism. Deborah wrote a book about her experiences called "Center of Mass".

Thursday Feb 18, 2021
Episode 44 - Interview with Dr. Beau Nelson, FHE Health
Thursday Feb 18, 2021
Thursday Feb 18, 2021
In this episode, I discuss the incredible work that FHE Health is doing for people who are struggling with addiction and mental health issues with Chief Clinical Officer, Dr. Beau Nelson. FHE's work is truly cutting edge, and they apply technology and techniques that are paving a new path for treatment. If you’re trying to decide if treatment is necessary, listen in.
This episode is brought to you by FHE Health. Find out more at fhehealth.com.

Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
Episode 43 - Interview with Darren Loki McGarvey
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
Darren Loki McGarvey is an author, rap artist, and broadcaster located in Glasgow, Scotland. I interview Darren about recovery, the drug death epidemic in Scotland, and what can be done to help those who are suffering from addiction. Darren is the author of the 2018 Orwell Prize winning and Sunday Times Bestselling Book, Poverty Safari: Understanding the Anger of Britain's Underclass. Find out more at darrenmcgarvey.com.

Monday Feb 08, 2021
Episode 42 - Ask Yourself These Questions
Monday Feb 08, 2021
Monday Feb 08, 2021
People ask me these questions all the time. Am I an alcoholic? Am I an addict? What do you think? Let's talk about this.

Monday Feb 01, 2021
Episode 41- Interview with Mike N.
Monday Feb 01, 2021
Monday Feb 01, 2021
Mike N. just celebrated four years of continuous sobriety. Mike tells us what he did, and what his life is like now.

Monday Jan 25, 2021
Episode 40 - Part II Suicide Awareness with Mark Pfetzer
Monday Jan 25, 2021
Monday Jan 25, 2021
Suicide is a growing problem and many do not get help because of the stigma associated with Mental Health issues. There is hope, and we discuss how to help yourself and others through difficult times. Find out more at guardianinitiatives.org.

Tuesday Jan 19, 2021
Episode 39 - Part I Suicide Awareness with Mark Pfetzer and Jarrod Slindee
Tuesday Jan 19, 2021
Tuesday Jan 19, 2021
Mark and Jarrod are going to be rowing across the Atlantic to raise awareness about suicide. Let's find out how they plan to complete this feat. Find out more at guardianinitiatives.org.

Wednesday Jan 13, 2021
Episode 38 - Interview with Katrina from Florida
Wednesday Jan 13, 2021
Wednesday Jan 13, 2021
Katrina from Florida just celebrated 30 days of sobriety!!! Let's find out how she did it.

Monday Jan 11, 2021
Episode 37 - Part II Interview with Christina Van Meter
Monday Jan 11, 2021
Monday Jan 11, 2021
In this episode we continue Christina's experience with Virginia Tech. This episode demonstrates how parents in recovery are involved and supportive of the pursuits and desires of their children. In recovery, all things are possible and you too can be there for your children.

Monday Jan 11, 2021
Episode 36 - Part I Interview with Christina Van Meter
Monday Jan 11, 2021
Monday Jan 11, 2021
This interview is not necessarily about recovery. Christina discusses Virginia Tech, The Corps of Cadets, and Air Force ROTC. The reason I am including this interview is so you can see how the lives of children are so much more enriched when those around them are involved in their lives and support their hopes and dreams. In recovery, you can do this too!

Saturday Jan 09, 2021
Episode 35 - Interview with Jim M.
Saturday Jan 09, 2021
Saturday Jan 09, 2021
Jim M. is a Vietnam Veteran, a former Police Officer, and survivor of sexual abuse from a priest. Jim discusses recovery from alcoholism and how good life can be.

Friday Jan 01, 2021
Episode 34 - Abstinence is the Key
Friday Jan 01, 2021
Friday Jan 01, 2021
There is a lot of talk about being able to moderate use. This episode discusses this dangerous viewpoint and why it is not a good idea.

Tuesday Dec 15, 2020
Episode 33 - Spinning/Exercise and Recovery
Tuesday Dec 15, 2020
Tuesday Dec 15, 2020
Diet and exercise in recovery are important. I discuss how I became involved in teaching Spinning classes and how this helped with my recovery.

Friday Dec 04, 2020
Episode 32 - Recovery and the Pandemic
Friday Dec 04, 2020
Friday Dec 04, 2020
During the Pandemic we have to double down our efforts to stay connected. Addiction is isolation, and we have to work to combat loneliness.

Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Episode 31 - What If Someone Sees Me at a 12-Step Meeting?
Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Lots of people are afraid to attend a 12-Step meeting because they are afraid someone will see them. In fact, that is why a lot of people don't attend in the first place. Let's talk about this.

Saturday Nov 07, 2020
Episode 30 - Non Al-Anon Resources for Families
Saturday Nov 07, 2020
Saturday Nov 07, 2020
My guest describes Non Al-Anon resources that helped her cope with her husband’s drinking.

Sunday Nov 01, 2020
Sunday Nov 01, 2020
In this episode John Taylor describes a program for Commercial Pilots who need to be in recovery. Find out more at himsprogram.com.

Sunday Nov 01, 2020
Episode 28 - Discussion with Frank Runles: Lies We Tell
Sunday Nov 01, 2020
Sunday Nov 01, 2020
Retired FBI Agent Frank Runles and I discuss Statement Analysis and how we lie about addiction to ourselves and others.

Saturday Oct 24, 2020
Episode 27 - Interview with Steve Click: Ohio ASSIST Program
Saturday Oct 24, 2020
Saturday Oct 24, 2020
I interview retired Ohio State Trooper Steve Click about how the Ohio ASSIST Program helps First Responders deal with Critical Incidents. Find out more at dpsohioassist.ohio.gov.
